by élite Magazine | Jul 24, 2015 | August/September, Relationship |
So you’re back in the dating game and you’re wondering what do I do now? The last time you were single Caitlyn Jenner was a U.S. gold medal winning male decathlete. My, how things have changed. But you don’t need to get freaked out. The game isn’t so different, it...
by Julie Bergher | May 24, 2013 | June/July, Relationship
Even at our age there are times, though increasingly rare, that we find ourselves ridiculously excited about someone we’ve met. This recently happened to me. My reaction to our meeting was reminiscent of my adolescence (and my obsession over Darren Brown when I was...
by Julie Bergher | Mar 26, 2013 | April/May, Relationship
Intolerant. I was labeled intolerant by a man I went out with recently. Intolerant! Imagine! Me! But here’s my story – I’ll let you decide. A tall, handsome physician. Semi-retired. We met online, spoke on the phone only twice, and made a date to meet. ...
by Julie Bergher | Jan 28, 2013 | February/March, Relationship
I’ve had several readers write to me asking for suggestions as to how to meet singles here in the Santa Clarita Valley. They’re frustrated that there aren’t specific organizations that cater to the 40 and 50+ groups of single or divorced men and women who go all but...
by Julie Bergher | Nov 27, 2012 | December/January, Relationship
The New Year is upon us and with it, our list of resolutions. Can we put “Find Soul Mate” on that list? Not long ago I read an article about finding one’s soul mate. There was a twist to the traditional views regarding how to go about it. The author believed...
by Julie Bergher | Sep 25, 2012 | October/November, Relationship
Do you remember the Tootsie Roll commercial from our childhood? The freckled boy with big round glasses asks the wise owl in the tree, “Mr. Owl, how many licks does it take to get to the Tootsie Roll center of a Tootsie Pop?” The wise owl takes the candy,...
by Julie Bergher | Jul 25, 2012 | August/September, Relationship
You might recall from my last column that I was proposed to recently. Certainly, one would think that a woman of my age would jump at any offer of marriage. The common misconception being that I’m not likely to receive too many more such offers. Ha! Wrong. No, I...
by élite Magazine | May 29, 2012 | June/July, Relationship
I was proposed to a couple of months ago. There should be an exclamation point at the end of that sentence, I think. Shouldn’t a woman in her early 50’s be excited at the prospect of new love and starting a life with someone? I guess my issues run deeper than even...
