Fire, Passion and Love

by Stephanie Jimenez

Every year millions of people give and receive valentine cards and gifts to the ones they love and care for, but do we really know where it all began?  Many people believe that Valentine’s Day was deemed to celebrate the death of St. Valentine, a martyr for marriage during Roman era.  Others believe the day was originally celebrated as one of the ancient Roman festivals of Lupercalia.  One ritual of Lupercalia took place on February 15.  It was a fertility celebration where the names of all available maidens were placed in a box and drawn out by young men.  Each man accepted the maiden whose name he drew as his love for the duration of the festival or sometimes longer.  Some pairings resulted in marriages.  Around 496 A.D., Pope Gelasius I, moved the celebration to February 14 and declared the day St. Valentines Day.  He also made the pagan celebration a Christian feast as the church was trying to alter many of the original pagan rituals celebrated by the Romans.  During these times people look at Valentines Day as one that they can share, celebrate and shower the ones they love with appreciation.
Valentine’s Day also showcases the artistic talent of many as they create homemade Valentines for their classmates, coworkers, family and friends.  It has become a true day of love for couples and singles alike.  Jokingly known to some as “Singles Awareness Day,” February 14 has now become a day to also celebrate oneself.  In a time where health and wellness are at the forefront, more and more people choose to spend the day in luxurious bliss by treating themselves to a massage.
Valentine’s Day is truly a day to acknowledge the love and respect we give the people in our lives and enjoy the time we are able to spend with them.  As this Valentine’s Day approaches, take time to shower the ones you love with praise, appreciation, respect and affection.  Sometimes the smallest acknowledgment of affection can create the greatest love of your life.
My valentine to you is this lovely recipe.  No matter what your budget, or relationship status, sometimes the sweetest thing can be as simple as a loving toast.
Cheers!